Beyond the Hanger: Redefining My Style and My Life

Hello everyone!

First and foremost, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for being a part of my blogging journey over these past 8 years. It's been a while since my last update, and I appreciate your patience and continued support. I know I haven't been as active on social media and my blog lately, and I wanted to take a moment to share some reflections on how my life and interests have evolved during this time.

When I first started my blog, I was just a teenager with a passion for fashion and styling. I thoroughly enjoyed dressing up and staying on top of the latest trends. However, as the years have passed, my life has taken me in different directions, and my priorities have shifted. It's important for me to be authentic and transparent with you all, and that's why I'm sharing these changes in my journey.

While I still appreciate fashion and styling, I'm no longer as invested in following the latest trends. This realization has left me feeling somewhat confused about the content I should be creating. I want to be honest with you all - even though fashion is a topic that many of you want to see more of from me, I'm finding it challenging to create that type of content.

I believe that as we progress through life, our interests and passions can change, leading us to discover new and unexpected pursuits. While fashion still holds a place in my heart, it's no longer my primary passion. In fact, I've found joy in simplifying my wardrobe and embracing a more minimalistic lifestyle. This is something my teenage self would never have imagined.

There was a time when I never repeated outfits and constantly sought new attire for every occasion. But as my closet began to overflow, I realized the burden of excess possessions and how it was affecting my life. I started decluttering and gradually embraced the principles of minimalism – intentionally living with fewer possessions and focusing on what truly matters.

Am I a full-fledged minimalist now? Not quite, but I'm definitely a work in progress. Over the past three years, I've significantly reduced my shopping habits and have been actively decluttering my belongings, keeping only the items that hold genuine value for me. This transformation has been both challenging and rewarding, and it's a journey I'm excited to continue.

During this transitional period, I've struggled with defining my content and what I want to share with all of you. But I've come to a realization – I'm still evolving, and that's perfectly okay. I may not have all the answers right now, but I'm eager to document and share this ongoing journey with all of you.

So, am I still a fashion blogger? I'd say I'm more of a lifestyle blogger now, focusing on the changes and experiences that are shaping my life. While I can't predict what my next post will be about, I'm thrilled to embark on this new chapter and share it with you all.

I want to take a moment to express my deep appreciation for your unwavering support over the past 8 years. Your encouragement has meant the world to me, and I can't wait to see where this journey leads us next.

Thank you for being a part of my story.☺

Until next time, please keep hustling for your dreams.

Xo, Jessi

10 years life update | Lifestyle

Hi guys,

    I hope your all doing well. I do not even know how to say 'Hello' anymore as I have been MIA from my blog for over a year. To say the least a lot has happened over the year. I would like to not only update you about the past year but also the past decade. Yes, you read that right! Today marks 10 years since I moved from India to USA. One way ticket to my dreamland. If you had told me 10 years ago that I would be publishing this post on my blog I would have never believed it. I was a shy little girl who lived in her own little world but, I was surrounded by the best people around. I remember how instantly I loved posting pictures on facebook within the first month in US. Taking pictures was only on rare occasions in India. I was amazed how frequently camera was used here in US. 

    I enjoyed being in front of the camera. I loved that very capture was a memory created. I also enjoyed writing growing up. I always had dairies and journals just for myself to evaluate and reflect back on life. I cannot believe the fact that I started my very own digital dairy. So, hello and thank you for being a part of my life journey. 

                                                                10 years in US

Beautiful plane ride, to being greeted by my most loving family at the airport with whom I finally got to meet and stay with after being far away all my life. It was a transition a major life change just at 15 years old. Forever grateful to have my amazing family who made this all possible for us and helping us thrive in our first year in US. I have the most strongest tribe in US. I cannot imagine a life without them.

                                                        THE MEMORY LANE HIGHLIGHTS

2012 

Left home country for good.

Made Michigan my home.

Traveled to Cincinnati, Ohio.

Had the best summer of my life.

Started high school.

First halloween.

First Autumn and first snowfall experience.

Had my sweet sixteen.

Christmas like no other.

2013 

Went to Homecoming for senior year.

Had my first ever professional shoot for senior pictures.

Watched Karina Kapoor and Saif Ai Khan shooting for Go Goa gone 2.

Made some best friends for life.

Had the best time with my cousin.

Found my first job.

Moved into a new house.

2014 

Graduated High School.

Started teaching Catechism.

Featured in news paper for the first time at 17.

Did a scholarship pageant.

Started college.

Travelled up-north Michigan.

2015

Got drivers license.

Started my Blog!

Went to Canada on a college field trip.

My first India trip!

2016

Tried my hands on making vlogs.

Got my first paid collaboration with LAYS.

Started at TAJ and explored Mumbai city.

Attended first American wedding.

2017

Visited St.Xavier's college.

Upgraded my blog.

Went on a cruise.

Experienced my first tea party.

Got to experience a all paid Spa evening.

Visited a castle for the first time.

2018

Got attend the Detriot auto show.

Did a room makeover.

Became a US Citizen.

Spoke at a panel for Social media day.

First trip with friends to Montreal Canada.

Attended Garba for the first time.

2019 

Another wonderful India trip.

Met Bronel.💞

Got a promise ring.

Visited California.

2020

Became Godmother to Cayden.

Had my last lab ever!

Had the best year at University.

Hustled hard.

2021

Had the most life-changing year.

Lots of self-care

Got Proposed.

Engaged.

Married.

Celebrated 25 years of life.

2022

New beginnings in life.

Full-time work.

10 years in the states.

Just a little highlight glimpse of my life. I will add more to this list as I remember more things.

Life has truly been a blessing. I am married now but the adventure is yet to begin. 

This blog is very close to my heart and I have kept this place as positive as I can. Life has its ups and downs but there is always something to be grateful more. Here is all that I have for you guys today.

Until next time, please keep hustling for your dreams.

Xo, Jessi

Simplicity

It is often in the most simple things that we find true happiness.

Simplicity is the key to happiness. I know it sounds simple but it’s hard to live simply. We humans have made life complex. We believe doing more makes us more productive. 

Simplicity is having focus on few things and doing them better. 

To simplify is to have more time, to downsize and to do what you truly love. 

How to simplify? 

Discover what you love and put all your energy into it.

If you want to reduce stress and cultivate more peace and ease in your life, start with a simple closet and a capsule wardrobe. 

Why to simplify things?

When you simplify, you’re left with a life filled with meaning, a life that is lived on your own terms. You have the time and space to pursue your interests and to create the life you truly desire.

Simplicity creates time for long walks. It provides more clarity which results in less distraction.

•More time 

•More energy 

•More Space

Simplicity reminds you that you don't need to prove anything to anyone. You are enough.

It invites you to pay attention to what matters most, and let the rest go.

Simplicity is the way back to love. By simplifying your life, and eliminating things that don't matter, you will find your way back to people you love, a life you love and work you love. 

Until next time, remember to always keep things simple for yourself. Travel light. Live light. Feel light. Be light. It's as good as it sounds. Xo, Jessi 

Scooby-Doo! | Halloween 2020

                                                                                     Scooby-Doo family costume 
 

 Roasting Cinnamon sugar Pumpkin seeds

                                                                                             Butter Pecan Cupcakes 

                                                                        Proud of my Scooby-Doo theme cupcakes creation

                                                                                                    Sparkling Apple&Cranberry

                                                                                               Velma Dinkely

                                                          

                                                                                                        Scooby!

                                                                                 Velma Dinkley and Daphne Blake

Happy Halloween 2020! I hope all your family and friends are doing well. This year we are indoors so, I decided to have a Scooby-Doo theme party!! I decided to DIY each of these 5 outfits all from our closets itself. This is my sister-in-laws 1st Halloween so, I wanted to make sure it's special. It was a delightful magical night at the Dias household. 

Our beautiful big carving pumpkins are from Glenda's Garden center they were kind enough to give my pumpkin for free.💛

We are grateful to have this family time. Here's to making our childhood dreams a reality with our parents.

A memorable Halloween party!

Shaggy - Papa

Scooby- Mom

Dalpne- Placi

Fred- Jason

Velma- Jasika 

Until next time, always remember to keep hustling for your dreams. Xo, Jessi ♡

Catastrophy 30 x 30 Challenge

3 Home Challenges - 30 Mins x 30 Day

Hello guys! I hope you all are doing well and staying safe at home.
I don't want to talk about the on going pandemic right now, instead I want all of us to take this opportunity to stay home and spend time with our dear once along with our work/studies. I know we all are going through uncertain times and it’s very easy to feel sad, as our daily activities have dropped down all of a sudden. Our screen time is increasing and we're running out of options of what we could possibly be doing at home. 

In this time I want to take up a 30 mins x 30 days challenge with you guys. 3 activities, 30 minutes for 30 days.
Let's us all aim to spend time on ourselves to take care of our physical self, create a peaceful space for ourselves, grow our knowledge and most importantly focus on spiritual growth.

April 2020
1)   Workout for 20 minutes
I did some basic stretches and few body weight exercises just to get started with moving my body again.
2)   Drink 2 liters of water 
I took up this challenge since I have been drinking less than 500 ml water a day for the last couple months due to the cold weather and being home gives us no excuse to not drink enough water.
3)   Pray for 5 minutes daily
I just thanked the almighty for the gift of this day. Also prayed and asked blessings for what's happening around.
Tip- These activities somehow kept me busy and helped me boost my mood staying home.
4)   15 minutes yoga
I tried Alo Yoga check it on youtube.
5)  Get some sun and fresh air from the window for 10 minutes
I opened my room window and tried to side by it and it felt really good.
6)  Read an insightful article for 5 minutes.
I read about minimalism article on Love people, Not thing.
7)   Help parents with making list of groceries for 20 minutes
We have to order grocery online due to the current lockdown situation so, I sat along with my parents to make a list.
8)   Reach out to old friends via text 3 minutes
I texted couple friends who live in Germany and India.
9)  Organize the study table 7 minutes
I prepared to study by setting up my desk.
10)   Take 15 minutes to unsubscribe to youtube accounts that you don't watch
There are many channels which I do not resonate with anyone so I decide to unsubscribe to them so I can have a feed in which I will see only what I like.
11)   Take 5 minutes to be in the present moment
I always live by the saying right now the present moment is your life. Past is gone and future is yet to come.
12)  Take 10 minutes to write out your thoughts
Writing down how I feel makes me feel calm. You cannot keep everything in you head it is nice to take a pen and paper and pin in down. You will feel clear, lighter and less worried.
13)   Take 10 minutes to research about any topic that interest you.
14)   Try having a family pray for 15 minutes so it feels like a Sunday.
15)   In 5 minutes write down 2 things that made you really happy this week.
16)   Clean your space 10 minutes
17)   Play some great music 10 minutes
18)   Feed some birds in you balcony 10 minutes
19)   Clean 1 drawer 15 minutes
20)   Play games on your phone 10 minutes
21)   Take 5 minutes to plan for the next day
22)   Make your bed 5 minutes
23)   Meal plan 20 minutes
24)   Watch funny videos  
25)   Call your family member and catch up for 15 minutes or more☺
26)   Email someone saying thinking of you 5 minutes
27)  Pray and let's prepare our hearts for Easter Sunday 10 minutes.
28)  Good Friday 
Spending most day in silence. Not talking is super powerful feeling give it a try.
29)  Put your phone down for 15 minutes
30)  Make a list for the day 10 minutes
31)  Read happy quotes for 5 minutes
32) Take 5 minutes to breathe
Stressed?Close your eyes. Listen to only the sound of your breath for a full 5 minutes become nothing but breath. Your soul will thank you. 
33) Take 15 minutes to break your fast and enjoy your first Easter meal
34)Take extra 10 minutes to talk to your parents.
35)   Fast -15 minutes. Make a little space for yourself to rest and renew
36)  Call a family member 10 minutes
37)  Add a regime 5 minutes I take extra time to comb my hair
38)   Make yourself a nice breakfast 15 minutes
39)  Walk for 10 minutes to shake off if you will anxious
40)  Listen to your favorite song 5 minutes




You all are free to make your own goals for the day. Also free to comment a goal for us to share in the next 30 days. Let's slow things down and take life one day at a time.
Let's Live A Life Less Ordinary. 
Until next time, always remember to keep hustling for your dreams. Xo, Jessi ♡

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They get professional team of designers to turn names and initials into lovely pieces of jewelry. Wide categories such as name necklaces; monogram chocker necklaces and family pendants. You have the option to choice the length and font metal of the jewelry. They give high importance in making good quality products in competitive pricing by using of the latest jewelry making technology. You can pay less for a great quality jewelry, which will last forever by using metals like gold and silver. They are well organized to bring about efficient service delivery. They make sure to be effective in process check out of packages, by offering fast, professional and timely delivery as these aspects are major priorities required to satisfy all their clients. All efforts are taken to make your jewelry as special as possible. 

Go check out their sit for wonderful shopping experience as their designs are made with lots of passion Getnameneckace.com. Each piece can be personalized by choosing the name, initials, lettering type, metal and stones to meet your personal sense of style. Happy shopping friends!

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Silver Bracelet

Family tree birthstone necklace in gold

Personalized Family Tree Birthstone Necklace in Gold

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Decade 2020

Hello guys!     

      I am excited to take you all with me as I begin a new phase in my life - 2020. My diamond year. I do believe I have found "the one". My Twin flame. I know this year as well as my 23rd year is going to be something huge. This year is going to challenge and push me in new ways and directions. I'm going to start 2020 knowing that I will end it with growth. Growth in spirituality, family, medicine, and self. 2020 is going to be diamond. #newyear #newdecade #2020

      To be honest 2019 was a mixed baggage of highs and lows and a very transformational year for me. I learnt a lot of new things about myself and about the life around me. My trip to India took a 360 on my life. The life that I knew changed forever and for the better. With the end of a decade, let the new journey begin. I am grateful for the past decade it made me the person I am today and showed me how to stand still and patient when things go wrong. I moved to the states in the last decade which was life changing. I have learnt lots of life skills, studied in high school and college got total of 6 years of work experience and got an established platform for myself online. Big thanks to my immigrant parents who are the real dreamers and fighters. "I will do what I can with what I have. And that will be enough." 
     The end of last decade started a new chapter in my life. The chapter where I will never walk alone. I have found my person. I finally found you, my missing puzzle piece. I'm complete. I can't wait to do life with you. #ToandFrom I have a history of moving every 7 and half years but he has moved my whole world around. We are excited to explore the opportunity of living in different parts of the world together. #Jdstriptoindiaforever makes my heart so happy.  

     Thank you guys for being my online family since last decade. I am excited to take you all with me as I begin a new phrase in my life. For all the exciting updates ahead follow hashtags #ToandFrom and #Jdstriptoindiaforever.
     More details about my 2020 year and decade long goals are coming soon!
Stay tuned for blog post twice a month.

Until next time, remember to always keep hustling for your dreams. Xo,Jessi.